Happiness is often portrayed as the ultimate goal in life, something we should all strive to achieve and maintain. But what if the secret to happiness is not constant joy, but rather the moments of unhappiness that allow us to truly appreciate the good times? Neurobiologist Indira Raman suggests that our brains are wired to find happiness in contrast—in the shifts between cold and warmth, … Continue reading Why Unhappiness May Be the Key to True Joy
In pursuing happiness, we often search for external sources of joy. Yet, true happiness often lies within, waiting to be uncovered through introspection and self-discovery. By asking ourselves the right questions, we can navigate our journey toward fulfillment with clarity and purpose. What is My Purpose? The quest for happiness begins with a fundamental question: What is my purpose? This question prompts us to reflect … Continue reading Finding Happiness: Asking the Right Questions to Unlock Fulfillment
Recently I was in a noisy restaurant with some friends and acquaintances recently when I heard someone behind me say, “Before I became a parent, I never thought I would ever…” It caught my ear so I turned to find it was a friend, the mother of a three-year-old, who had started the sentence. I asked her to repeat herself. “Before I became a parent, … Continue reading In Hindsight
In our busy modern life, self-care often takes a backseat as we juggle work, relationships, and personal responsibilities. Yet, nurturing our well-being is paramount for leading fulfilling and balanced lives. Enter the concept of “finding your flow” – a journey towards mastering the art of self-care and achieving inner harmony. Understanding the Essence of Self-Care Self-care encompasses a spectrum of practices aimed at nurturing our … Continue reading Finding Your Flow: Mastering the Art of Self-Care for a Balanced Life
So my kids have started doing this thing. Every evening before bath time – after we take their clothes off before they get into the tub – they run around the apartment like crazed feral wild cats. Screaming and laughing. Pure unadulterated joy. It got me thinking about the clothes we wear, metaphorically speaking. A kid doesn’t question why we walk around with clothes on … Continue reading The Joy of Running Around Naked
Hi everyone, I want to talk about some acts of kindness today. Recently, I have been observing some small things that make people happy and this made me think that being kind may not be hard after all. The acts of kindness that I want to talk about today all involve reminding them that you remember them. Say, you have a friend that you hung … Continue reading Just be kind; It is not difficult
Hi all, I want to talk about tiredness today. Specifically, how tiredness is closely tied to the mind. According to some, some (or most or all) illnesses are caused by psychological issues. Illnesses are reflections of underlying psychological problems. I also believe that at least some illnesses are like this. However, my point today is that it is not only illnesses but also some of … Continue reading Tiredness
Sometimes life makes us forget that living is not all about running around all day from one point to another trying to solve things. As you surely noticed, some situations has some “joyfulness” potential while others don’t have it. But how many of those joyful moments or situations do you have on a daily basis? What’s the purpose of all of this? How much crap … Continue reading What gives you joy?
