Why True Resilience Means Staying With the Pain
After a layoff, a breakup, or a bereavement, the immediate social reflex is to offer a reassuring smile and declare, “I’m fine.” We have all heard that phrase, or even said it ourselves. The cultural pressure to recover quickly is immense. We are taught that resilience is a spring: absorb the shock, bounce back to the original position, and return to business as usual. This … Continue reading Why True Resilience Means Staying With the Pain