scrabble tiles on white surface

Who am I?


I hope you enjoy listening to this song while reading my poem. My friend, Kjartan, who is currently travelling in Brazil, introduced me to this song. By the way, this poem was published first on my blog in November 2020. 

The Ramana Maharshi self-inquiry meditation inspired my “Who am I?” poem. I send massive gratitude to Ramana Maharshi for inspiring me to shape this poem.

– Who am I?

I was born in the city of Isfahan

That’s the place my parents met

They fell in love, danced the flame of love and drama kind of

– Who am I?

I am a daughter

A Sister

A lover

And a mother

– Who am I?

As a girl

I did not understand the feeling of inferiority.

How to accept the superiority

Or deal with authority.

I had a rebellious point of view.

A constant taboo

– Who am I?

As a daughter, I watched my mother and father.

A woman was supposed to stand by her man

Follow the clan

Stand like a cliff

Never show her grief.

And the men, as a part of the ban

He had to live as a man

Never less than

Never show his grief

He had to live for that belief

The anger, though, was an accepted brief

Or part of a higher relief?

That made men chief

– Who am I?

As an adult woman

I had to reframe

How to be brave and play the game

I have to manoeuvre my flame

My Claim

The right to be a woman without all the shame and the blame

All around the world

We are all the same

Women wearing jewels

Everybody follows the rules

Playing the perfect game

To suit the surroundings and not break the patriarchal frame


I wish all the readers and writers of the Wise and Shine blogger community a merry and blissful Christmas. 

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11 thoughts on “Who am I?

  1. “I have to manoeuvre my flame.” Such powerful words! We most manoeuvre or the flame will be extinguished—much to the joy of many. Merry Christmas to you, Parisa!

    1. It is so true Michelle!!
      Thank you so much for you reading the poem and your Words, Michelle. I also wish you a wonderful Christmas.

    1. I am happy that you liked the song, Todd! I do like it as well.
      Thank you for reading the Poem and for your comment on it, based on your experience of it. I also wish you a merry and happy Christmas!

    1. Thank you Wynne for this comment. Snapshot of identity. I have tasted the Word “snapshot of identity” and it tastes so delicious.

    1. Thank you for reading it and I am delighted that you liked it. Merry Christmas to you as well and happy blessed holidays.

    1. Same to you dear Cristiana. Thanks for reading it, by the way, and your comment.

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