Question of the Day – No. 416 Posted on June 13, 2019June 5, 2019 by Troy Headrick What scares you the most about yourself? Share this:TwitterFacebookTumblrLinkedInRedditPinterestPocketTelegramWhatsAppSkypeEmailPrintLike this:Like Loading...
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MY FACE…. MIRROR CRACKING MATERIAL
How many mirrors cracked so far?
My susceptibility to stress – I’m scared that one day it will become too much to deal with
How did you deal with it so far?
Well, I’m in the process of dealing with it right now, trying out different strategies such as meditation, yoga, etc.
My mouth . sometimes I get scared of the words that comes out of my mouth . I need to be extra careful of my words . I have a sharp mouth and I tend to hurt people just by saying how I feel
Me too! I have to ask myself is it kind, was it asked for, and is it helpful? If even one of those questions is a no then I keep my mouth shut. So hard!!!!!
Wow I just learnt something new … Shutting up can be so hard but we all need to control our mouth
Does it happen only when you’re controlled by an emotion?
I guess so . sometimes out of anger ,other times over excitement
Anger is deep seated. A negative emotion that if not controlled leads to ruin
It’s the opposite of love
I’m working on it and I can say there’s improvement .
It’s our schools . They don’t teach us how to be virtuous.
This what exactly what I was talking to my mom about . well I’m glad there’s a church that teaches us how to be positive and use the right words
What did you like about the video
The power I hold – I can make or break someone’s day with a few words. That’s terrifying.
Me too, see my above comment to d-analyst!
If only many people could realize it…
I agree with Liz above. I’m also afraid of becoming a bitter person. I’m afraid that the light/positivity will leave me one day.
I fear that also. Bringing God in helps me. ❤️
What could determine your light/positivity to leave?
When everything in life seems to be going wrong for a long time, when there’s seems to be no light at the end of the tunnel which thankfully this isn’t happening in my life right now 🙂
My lack of commitment. I need change very often…🤷♀️
Is it because you get bored or…?
My eyes. If I stare into them too long in the mirror I start to see all the things in my soul I’m not ready for. The things I long for, the things I tuck away in boxes, the dark shadow of my Self and the hidden Inner Self waiting to emerge victorious.
We all have such parts, but the good thing there is so much more of “us” and those parts can handle the darkness.
I have the same fears as everybody else on this list. Now I fear I’m just neurotic!!!
Or you’re just human 🙂
What could happen if I ever truly lost control or “let go”… Terrifying
Let go of what
My self-control. For example if I drank so much alcohol I was not consciously in control of myself
What could make you lose control?
Too much alcohol… Or mind altering drugs I guess if that’s a thing. Not something I’ve tried though
1. Laziness. Some days I just don’t feel like doing anything and I have to have a real conversation with myself to get things done. Most of the time laziness loses the battle.
2. My eagerness to tell the truth. Most people go day-to-day lying to themselves and others about how they really feel. I don’t like to hold back. I do my very best to use tact, especially when it’s a difficult truth to dish out to someone, but I’ll feel better and they usually will too if I’m honest. It also helps people to trust me and surprisingly enough, open up more because they know I’ll give them a truthful opinion and not just what they want to hear.
Even though people want to hear only what they want to hear, sometimes they need to hear what they need to hear. Sometimes we need to break something to create something new. That applies to people as well.
The older I’m getting, the less patience I have.
Does that happen regarding everybody? I mean, to you have more patience in certain circumstances compared to others?
How morbid my mind has become and the terrifying dreams I have pretty often.
What are those dreams related with?
Usually they revolve around spirits and the supernatural, mainly really violent ones. Though lately I’ve been trying to interpret them more, the real message underneath the content.
What about it scares you the most?
🙂 way to many things to type here………
That “I” have an end
I’m afraid of losing my bitterness, for something sweeter. We must not forget sweet things always turn bitter at some point in time. I’m always willing to try, but then that gets taken
What would happen if you lose your bitterness?
That I’m unbelievably amazing and powerful 😳
How come you find that scary?
Because then there is nothing to stop me or hold me back!
Addiction of what?
Anything that numbs my thoughts I guess.
Nothing. I am freaking awesome with all my fears and shit 🤪👌🏻👍🏻🤗🤗🤗
You can conquer anything! 😀
My bad luck.
I hope you don’t have too much bad luck…
Believe me. It is actually worse one.
You will never be of bad luck . stop thinking this way and make things work for you .even when they don’t work say I am of good works
Ageing in my head I’ve just turned 30 but the mirror tells me otherwise 😊
That’s what the mirror tells you, but what if that mirror lies?
Well I hope it is lying x
Ageing is a beautiful thing . you do not grow younger but older and wiser
That I’ve become scared of taking chances on big things – love, moving somewhere new, traveling solo.
How come you become scared of taking chances of big things?
Fear is the sinker of dreams .never let fear take a hold of you
I take risks that may kill me
Making the right decision matters a lot . but how do you take bold steps that wouldn’t lead you in trouble . this is where you need divine guidance . make your plans and God will direct your actions
I am very short tempered. My head hurts at the verge of breaking while i am angry. I am scared it will be destructive for me and and for people close to my heart!
NOTE: I am working on this and i neither try to hit people nor hurt myself. I LOVE myself. I just distance myself and ask people to stay away from me for sometime while i try to sober up.
Do people understand and stay away from you when you get so angry?
very few understand and come back to me. Rest don’t. They think I deliberately behave the way i do.
Well, you cannot expect good from everyone. So, i just focus on people who truly understand!
That I have locked myself away mentally from people because I live in fear of being hurt for so long, that I wouldn’t know how to let anybody in, even if they tried
And this itself doesn’t hurt you?
God gave me a mouth and bc I was public schooled – I am only now learning and becoming wise.
I guess we keep learning all our life 🙂
Interesting question… hmm… I have the tendency to be rude, really rude, and sometimes it scares me.
In what circumstances do you get so rude?
Like when women act stupid and they think it’s cute specially in front of their boyfriends/crush…