Question of the Day – No. 345 Posted on April 2, 2019April 2, 2019 by Troy Headrick Which skill do you need to acquire so your life can become better? Share this:TwitterFacebookTumblrLinkedInRedditPinterestPocketTelegramWhatsAppSkypeEmailPrintLike this:Like Loading...
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you post the most amazing questions………….
Thank you very much! <3
I think I could move up faster if my ass kissing skills were better.
Yes, you could, but if those asses will disappear, you’ll fall right away.
Very good point.
Yes, that’s essential for having a growth mindset.
My responses to negative people
How do they look now and how would you like the change to look like?
I take them personally, and am easily hurt/angered by them. (Co-dependency and CPTSD) I am trying to change that by learning and remembering it’s a choice to respond-and I don’t have to.
My life would be wonderful if start to know how to lie or hide things.
If you knew how to lie or hide things, how different would your life be?
I will be happily married:) not writing on the blog
Do you think lying and hiding things are required for a happy marriage?
No, honesty is important. It depends on the situation. I doubt u was going to ask that question if u read any of my articles. 😀
Well, I like to make things as specific as possible so both me and other readers make sure about the message. 🙂
Mindset. Never stop learning 🙏🏻 five minutes to learn and a lifetime to apply 👌🏻
That’s deep. Learning is a never-ending process 🙂
Self-confidence. Improved self-image. Not giving a rat’s ass what people think. Staying kind and calm in times of stress rather than melt down or lash out/re-act (that’s mostly related to parenting teens). 😉
Well, being a teenager is tough these days and I guess that all the pressure they feel is eliminated the way it is because they don’t know how to handle things differently…
As for what others think, it’s their life and if they want to spend it thinking about what you do with yours, it’s their job just as it’s your job to live yours.
Being calm in every situation
Which situations make you angry?
the normal ones which make all others angry lol. Mostly when someone isn’t given a freedom of opinion of making choices. Someone’s voice isn’t heard. I am mostly a long tempered person 🙂
I need to be more confident. That’s a big one.
That’s big indeed. If you think about the moments when you feel confident, what’s different than the ones you’re not? What makes you be more confident?
Take better advantage of free time!
In which areas?
Learning to control my thoughts, focusing on the positves and redirecting all my attention on my goals
I truly understand that! For me, it worked to read and write every day with my phone away and TV off. It kept me in my own head without distractions. Have you tried this? Maybe it would work for you too.
Am definitely trying this, thanks
Social skill or higher bullshit tolerance
If you get interested to see how other people really are, you might find necessarily skills to get through bullshit. The problem is that some are so full of this bullshit that not even themselves can get through that.
That’s interesting. Can you get into more details regarding this?
More confidence and improved self-image, like others said. And raising my energy, mental and physical, a little bit!
These are somehow interconnected. If you get more confident, you’ll find more energy. What are the thoughts that diminish your confidence?
Organizational skills are always helpful. Unfortunately, when life moves fast, it’s the first skill to go, in my experience!
What exactly do you mean when you say organizational skills?
Just organization in general, setting my day up for success, having an intention and meeting it, organizing my time, knowing where everything is, having all things put in their rightful place. Keeping my mind directed towards the positive, making time for quiet and not being haphazard and getting easily distracted. It’s an art form, actually! )
I’d like to be a human lie detector, like that TV show with Tim Roth I think
“Lie to me”, right? It would be an interesting life.
Yes, that’s the one. Interesting for sure!
Yesterday I thought about this question and an answer presented itself. I didn’t quite want to post it — thought it might seem either too “out there” or else too fashionable. Today something ridiculous happened to reinforce the answer, so I’m going ahead and say it: mindfulness. I could really use more and better mindfulness. I know in some ways it’s more of an ability or an inclination than a skill, but I think there’s an important skill element to it also.
That’s really interesting! I guess that for some people it’s ab ability or an inclination, but for those who doesn’t have it (like me), it’s more like a skill because I need to practice it over and over again before it gets better. Maybe you’re in the same category as I am 🙂
Haha, yes I think so!
Communication skills.. 😀
In which circumstances is this a blocker?
Like you talk to almost everyone all day long.. if your communication skills are strong you are admirable at every moment.. This is what i think..
Yes, that is very true!
How to do business.
I think that’s related to why to do business.
In your opinion, what makes you impatient?
People make me very impatient. I find it increasingly difficult to deal with stupid
Self-confidence and assertiveness
If you had those, how would your life look like?
Pretty much better I guess!! Way better!!