Starting 23rd March, the government of Pakistan announced a nationwide lockdown as a preventive measure against spread of coronavirus. In my quarantine story I talk about how I have managed to cope so far and the thought process that helped me in doing so.
I read a beautiful post which stated that how we view this pandemic and operate while locked down depends on our perspective about it. Think of this, say 5 years from now when you look back at it, how do you want to view it?
Do you want to say things like I was terrified? The end of the world? I was locked down for days I didn’t leave my house? I mean all this is fine but what good would it bring?
Would you rather remember it as a time when you invested a lot in yourself? For instance I have gotten very consistent with my blog lately. What was I waiting for to realize this amazing skill that I have?
Come to think of it, it really is a privilege to
-work from home
-staying at home in a non-toxic environment
-do nothing yet survive
-be in a healthy mental state
-be in a healthy physical state
-be in a healthy spiritual state
There is an affirmation that I repeat everyday at least 5 times:
“Day by day, in every way, I am getting better and better” 😊
Although at first it sounded very superficial but overtime I started observing a very positive effect in my life. So much so that I now get external validation to the fact that I am, in fact, getting better and better everyday.
Conclusion
No matter what perspective you choose, your quarantine story is yours to tell. And it will be different than my story or anyone else’s. The only request or advise is to make this story a positive one. One from which future generations can take a learning.
God forbid if it is something of the sort that is to return in future, may your story help others to cope. To view lockdowns as a time much needed for self. Rather than viewing them as a halt to your progress.
If you are someone who wants to grow and progress in life, trust me no pandemic can ever stop you. Again, this is my personal story and I don’t want to impose it on someone else.
With all said and done I do realize that not everyone has the mental capacity to cope and spend all this time productively. So if you’re someone who simply survives this time and comes out sane, know that you have done enough and this is no little achievement in itself.
There is a related post on tips on working from home, you may want to give it a read: https://reasonstolivefor.com/work-from-home/
Do let me know about your quarantine story in comments below 😊
YES! All of what’s going on right now totally depends on one’s perspective! Glad to see you’re making the best of it! I’ve gotten very consistent with my blog too!
Hey! Good to hear, we’re all trying our best here 😊
This is exactly the kind of post that one needs to read during the lockdown.
Thank you for sharing.
You’re most welcome. Thanks for reading! 😊
This is such a wonderful perspective to have. I’m glad that you are able to move through this pandemic with such a positive outlook. Stay well and take care.
Hey, thanks for the appreciation! 😊
You take care as well!
Great perspective. Thank you for the reminder to keep ourselves in the right frame of mind!
You’re most welcome! 😊
Absolutely agree with this!! I took the positive, productive approach and my mental state and blog have been thriving.
Great read! Thank you!
You’re welcome. Thanks for reading 😊
I see it as a good time to chill at home, spend time with the family and have some time to stream some shows. Besides, going out is much more troublesome.
That’s a cool perspective!
Yup. We have to do our part. If staying at home will prevent further infection in the community, then you better at least enjoy it!
I like your way of thinking, really appreciate it!
Thank you for this reminder, friend. I’m a fan of the saying, “Sometimes the only thing we can control is our attitude.” Be well! 🕊
You’re most welcome. Thanks for reading 😊
My pleasure! 🕊
I agree! My thoughts: Life offers me exactly what I need in the very moment I need it. With this mindset I then have the opportunity to uncover all the treasures being offered to me now. Thank you for such a positive post.
You’re most welcome and thanks for reading 😊
Very, very good reminder about perspective! As a writer, I am so grateful for the extra time quarantine has given me to spend consistently on developing my next novel, but it has been somewhat frustrating seeing the production of my latest stageplay script delayed. On one hand, I can focus on what isn’t moving forward as quickly as I would like, but on the other hand, I can maximize the time I do have to invest in something that CAN move forward.
And you are exactly right: when we consider how little time we have in life, we will not want to look back and know that we spent months on end stressing about things we cannot control. Here’s to giving our all to what IS possible!
Exactly. I’m glad even you were able to see the positive out of it. Keep marching on! 👊🏻
I love this perspective. I had a negative view of it for awhile, but that was when the stay at home first went into effect the day before I was supposed to see my fiance. So I was upset but knew it was for the best. I eventually got over it and am taking full advantage of being home mostly all the time (still have to get groceries). Started a new blog, house training my previously outdoor cat, and have more time for my knitting and sketch projects. My mental health took a dive in the beginning of quarantine, but since focusing on all the time I have, I’m a little better. Also, cat is making progress so that’s uplifting!
So glad to hear that you were able to get a grip of the situation. Keep shining ⭐
Thank you for your perspective on this. True, if you want to improve you can, even in a pandemic.
Here is my take on self-improvement http://felicityfauxpas.com/2020/05/11/the-tyranny-of-self-improvement/
Thanks for reading 😊
I’ll check it soon
Thank you for sharing these words with us. ♥️
Thank you for reading 😊
My pleasure!
Yeah, very true
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Wow! You wrote a few words but so impactful. Maybe you just inspired someone 🙂
Means a lot. Thanks for reading! 😊
I’ve been super happy the whole time – well, there was one hiccough… – but for 3 months now I’ve had the best time; the city was quiet, no crowds of cars or people, only birds… the skies so clear for days on end… no planes, trains or automobiles… I’ve loved this time for introspection and personal growth; but then I dont have children or a partner hanging off my arm, so it’s a little easier for me than it is for some out there…
Lovely perspective you’ve given here😊
It’s all about perspectives, I guess – and understanding that there are many, and I have just one of a few… <3
It got quite hard during November and December though… every year I always attend my friends' parties, anniversaries, or children's birthdays, but the only time of year I get to celebrate me is my birthday. This year with curfew and social distancing, I didn't get so many hugs like usual. Nor cards with meaningful words. It was dark. I felt like everyone had forgotten me. This COVID malarkey has done that to us – it has made some of us feel very alone.
But then, self-pity for overly long periods of time is not in my nature, and, with the new year, came new hope, and SNOW! And all has been made a little more right again <3
Peace, love, light xx
This is a great post! I will remember this time as one that challenged me but made me feel good about myself because I overcame the challenges! And now, I am actually comfortable and happy with the quarantine.
Thanks for reading and helping out, Betul! 😊
Great article. This is so true. And the positive affirmation is something I really need to get into a habit of saying as well. Luckily for me, I had pretty much been in self-isolation for a year due to my cancer. Which I’ve never looked on as a burden. I feel like I almost trained for this time. But there are still lessons to be learned, challenges to be met. Visits to the hospital are like entering a virtual reality apocalypse computer game. But I feel grateful to the nurses who are still showing up for us. I am actually missing them a lot because my treatment has changed. And it also kick started my desire to get my blog up and running. I have no idea what I was waiting for. I think putting yourself out there in the most authentic way can be scary and very liberating all in one hit. But as I have found with most things once I take the leap, it actually becomes incredibly enjoyable. 🙂
You’re a fighter! And you’ll come out of it stronger!! My prayers are with you 🤲 thanks for reading 😊
What a wonderful post. I love your take on the ‘quarantine story’. We all have a different narrative during this time. I totally agree with you that my perspective shapes my experience. I also love your mantra. Thank you for such an inspirational read!
Glad you liked it. Thank you for reading! 😊
Love this!
This is the perfect time to do some self reflection and learn so much about who we are!
I just wrote about this in my blog @theoptimismblog and how important it is to reframing in these times! Go check it out if you enjoyed this!
Will do. Thanks for reading! 😊
Great post! Please check out my post!
https://themysticwagon.wordpress.com/2020/06/06/lockdown-from-a-new-perspective/
Love your daily affirmation ☀️ Thank you for sharing! Perspective is huge.
Thanks for reading! 😊
Your words are very impactful👌👌
Much appreciated! 😊
Truer words have not been said. Perspective makes so much of a difference! Let’s become the writers of our quarantine stories that’s bound to go in the history books!
Here’s my take on it, would love to know what you think!
https://notjustanidea.wordpress.com/2020/06/24/2020-a-perspective-paradox/
Thanks. I’ll give it a read! 😊
This is a post I’ve been waiting. Everyone, let’s survive this and be able to share positive experiences and realizations for the future gen 😊
Thanks for reading😊